FEELING HOPELESS? REGAIN YOUR FAITH - Motivational Speech

.Hey today I want to talk to you about what you do when you feel hopeless.  This is a bit of a more of an intense article. It's hard not to feel hopeless when you've been on a lot of dates, and haven't had a lot of success. Don't fret! In this article, I reveal how to change your mindset to regain your faith in finding your man.

I received this email from someone who follows me.  Some of this email and she writes,

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 I just turned 70 years old.  Although I look younger yes I have issues with not looking young enough and I haven't been in a relationship for almost 9 years. I felt the sadness listening to the phone call because I recently have been thinking it would be nice to have a partner, but thinking I can't happen.  I feel before so many times, etc. etc. and there's something inherently wrong with me.  I'm not really lovable.  Honestly, I don't know if I would even know love if it hit me in the face, and I don't know if I've ever really loved or been loved.  I been married once before and had two significant relationships by spent most of my life single. I question for you is and I know you'll say, of course, there's hope But can I ever really believe this. I have taken so many transformational programs I've read so many books on relationships and codependency, etc. and I'm still not in the relationship that I want.  Please give me some words Donna.

 Well, I’m really appreciative of Donna for sending that in, because just sending a message like that takes courage and maybe you had times in your life where you felt like it's hopeless.  You felt like you've read the books, you felt like you've taken the courses, you felt like you poured your heart and soul into this thing called relationship this thing called love .and you're still empty-handed. You are looking around your life and you still don't have the relationship you want.  And so the question becomes at this moment, what do you do?

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DO you yield to the part of you that says, there’s no hope, it’s not in the stars for me.  Maybe it's never going to work out.  Maybe I'm destined to be single or you claim a different thought. You claim a different part of yourself.  A part of yourself that actually does believe in hope. Because here's the deal, you wouldn't be reading this article.  If there wasn't at least some part of you.  Maybe some corner of your heart that still believes that it's possible. Donna wouldn’t have sent me that message if She didn't still believe that there was some part of her that believed it was possible for her, and as human beings it’s really easy to yield our power to the hopelessness, to yield our power to the paradigms in our minds That are saying,

“it won't happen, It can't happen for you,” trying to keep you single .and on top of that, these old beliefs, these all thoughts that remind you of all the circumstances in your life like look, you haven't been dating anyone for nine years .you had all these bad dates. You have all your true old. Look at your circumstances, you're still single.  You have yet anything to show off for all the effort that you put in.

The paradigm loves to remind you of that.  So you have a choice .at this moment what you're going to do with that information.  One of the most challenging and one of the most powerful moves we can make as human beings is to remember the truth in the face of opposing facts.  Does that mean? that means that although the facts of your life might be speaking to  the situation of being single, a situation of not having love .the situation that is been years since you've had love yes those are the facts.  That's not the truth of who you are.

 The truth is that there is a power breathing you that is far more powerful than any circumstance, any condition I don't care what it is, how long it's been there that

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Your history does not determine your destiny but your choices.

 Which side are you going to give power to .are you going to give power to the fact that is been there this long.  That you are single, that it hasn't worked.

Or are you going to give power to the creative force in you to be able to create whatever it is that you want. The truth is that if you have that longing for love, you know what that is? So your longing of love is the echo, it’s the counterpoint to your partner’s longing for love.  That's the connection point that is possible for you .but only if you partner with your point of power within. 

There's a great story about an elder grandfather walking through a path .and his grandson is walking with him. They’re walking in silence for a long time until the grandfather looks down at his grandson and says, “you know, I feel like there are two wolves inside of me and they are fighting .one wolf is fighting for resentment, fear, hatred, and hopelessness .while the other wolf is fighting for good, encourage, possibility and they are at odds with one another.”

The grandson says “well grandfather, which one is going to win “he goes

“Well that’s easy grandson, the one that wins is the one that I feed”. 

And I love that you've got to stand guard at the gate of your mind. 

If you want love, when you hear thoughts of discouragement, Thoughts of doubt,

“I’m tool old, it’s been too long, it’s not in the cards for me, and it’s not going to happen,”

When you hear those voices of doubt, you have to say NO to those voices, stand guard at the gate of your own mind and partner with the thoughts of possibility, that “yes it can happen. Yes, it can be real for me.  Yes me moving in this direction.

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Two things that you want to do that can help fuel and feed those thoughts.

Number one you want to have a mentor in your life that can help guide you .because every single one of us we can't see our own blind spots that's why they're blind spots .it’s really hard to see the picture when you're the one in the frame.  So you want to be around someone who can help guide you who has done two things? 

Number one manifested these kinds of results in their life.  Whatever it is that you want.  They've achieved those results and they've helped other people do it as well.  You want someone in your life like that. 

Number two, you want to surround yourself with people who believe in you,

In your power, in your possibility in the life that you are creating in your life. You want to immerse yourself in that environment and remind yourself that yes, it is possible for me because again you would be reading this article.  If there was a net power inside of you, connecting you to hope, connecting you to something amazing in your life.

 Say no to the part of you that doubts say yes to the part of you that believes.

Commit to that part move yourself forward and you'll start to see a whole new set of results unfold for yourself.