15 Signs That You Are His Secret Obsession-Relationship Advice

He loves me...He loves me not... There you go. Now there are better ways to find out if your man is totally into you than the old flower technique that we use when we were kids. In this article, I am going to break down 15 signs that your man totally adores you. Check it out. Now we are going to go through these signs rapid-fire so buckle yourself and pay attention here we go.

1^ST SIGN: HE IS ACTIVE IN HIS PURSUIT OF YOU.

Is your man texting you? Is he making plans in advance with you? Is he pursuing you? All of those actions suggest that he's thinking ahead. He's thinking about you. You are on his mind. When you are not around .that's a great sign that he adores you and is into you.

2^ND SIGN: HE IS PRESENT WHEN HE IS WITH YOU

Our attention is one of our limited commodities. And we will pay attention to what we value most right. What matters to us will give our attention to it. So when he is with you, is He pouring his attention on you? Is he present and is he focused on what matters to him, which you are?

3^RD SIGN: HE POURS MAXIMUM INVESTMENT INTO HIS INTERACTIONS WITH YOU.

In other words, he's not breadcrumbing you, just doing the job required to keep you interested. But he's taking you out on surprises. He's putting adventures together where he's taking you out for a weekend or planning a cool secret hiking picnic with you. Is he pouring his own creative energy and maximum effort into the experiences that you have together to create something amazing?

4^th SIGN: HE REMEMBERS WHAT MATTERS TO YOU.

He’s focused on you .slightly different than being present. This focus is, He remembers what matters to you. He's asking you questions about your life. He's curious about what lights you up. What brings your life, right? What do you love in your life, and he remembers things about you and your families like they did your mom have a big project that was due today. How did that go or hey, your sister's baby should've been Due by now, did she have the baby? What’s going on? Remembers those things because you matter to him.

5^th SIGN: HE WANTS EXCLUSIVITY WITH YOU

He is Mr. Progression, not Mr. stagnant man.

In other words, he's moving the relationship forward, and he wants exclusivity with you .because he knows that if he doesn't have exclusivity with you. You could be out dating other men and that just burns him. He does not want you seeing other men because he's totally into you. He adores you and he wants to make sure that you and he are spending as much time together as possible.

6^TH SIGN: IS HE'S VULNERABLE WITH YOU.

A lot of men want you to think that they have it all figured out all the time. But the truth is they don't .and so when a man totally adores you. He's totally into you and he sees you as a partner. He's much more willing to open up and share the vulnerable side of what’s really going on in his world.

7^TH SIGN: PUBLIC DISPLAYS OF AFFECTION

Is he isn't ashamed to be seen with you and he wants to hold your hand in public .he wants to put his arm around you. These public displays of affection are a great sign that your man is into you and he's adoring all over you.

8^TH SIGN: HE WANTS TO BE WITH YOU EVEN AT YOUR WORST.

What does this mean? you know every one of us, We have times when we are on it, we are positive, we are feeling great, we are having a great time .and days when we are not feeling great .so when you're feeling blue He’ll be your shoulder to cry on, he'll hear what's going on for you. And most guys, when they're really into you, they want to help fix it. They want to solve the problem, they want you to feel better.

so if he's willing to be your shoulder to cry and willing to be with you, not just when everything is great, but when you're going through a rough time as well and be a source of support for you. That's a great sign of how much he really cares about you.

9^TH SIGN: IS HE'S WILLING TO BE INFLUENCED BY YOU.

It is an interesting one. There is a researcher Dr. John Gottman, out of the University of Washington, and he writes a a lot about this in his best-selling marriage books.

That when we really love somebody, we allow them to influence us. We allow them we hold their political views with a certain degree of respect and will allow ourselves to be swayed. We will explore a new place with them. We’ll see a movie they want to see .we will load the dishwasher, they want us to load the dishwasher because we love them and we are allowing them to influence who we are. That's not a sign of weakness, that’s a great sign of love.

10^TH SIGN: IS HE MENTIONS YOU IN FUTURE PLANS

right he’ll bring up vacations that he would love to take with you, or places He would love to visit with you .and say hey we should go check out the Eiffel Tower or we should go to Mexico together or Costa Rica. Or let's go rafting the Grand Canyon together. A guy who is really into you is going to make future plans with you.

11^TH SIGN: HE REMEMBERS THE LITTLE THINGS

He remembers your favorite food, your favorite ice cream, your favorite restaurant, a group that you really like and it makes plans involving the little things in life. Because those little things that can create big moments in a relationship.

12^TH SIGN: YOUR COMFORT IS A PRIORITY FOR HIM.

So when you're driving the car together. He wants to know “hey, how're the temperatures? Does it feel good to you?”

13^TH SIGN: HE OFFERS TO HELP EVEN WHEN IT'S INCONVENIENT.

Need a ride to the airport at 5 AM. He's the one to do it right. You need someone come over to your house for moving day he's there, he's got your back. I’m not saying he's always happy about it, because no guy is perfect, but he's willing to do it because you matter to him.

14^TH SIGN: HE WANTS TO PLEASE YOU IN BED.

This one's big is he wants to please you in bed when a guy totally adores you. You feeling good really matters to him .and he will often want to make sure that he takes care of you .before he takes care of, and you take care of him enough set.

15^TH SIGN: FEELING OF PEACE AND SECURITY

And lastly, there’s no doubt in your mind that he's into you because he vocalizes it. Because he shows it with his actions .because he's consistent in his behavior and there's this feeling of peace and security in you between you and him and the relationship that you share

So there you have it. 15 signs that your man totally adores you. And I have a question for you when you totally adore a guy. What are some of the things that you do? What are some of the signs that he can look for that lets him know that you're totally into him. Go ahead and post a comment in the comments section below

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