DARE TO LEAD SAYINGS-LIFE LESSON TO GET OVER HARDSHIPS

LIFE LESSON THAT WILL HELP YOU GET TO THE NEXT LEVEL OF LIFE

LESSON NO 1 OF DARE TO LEAD:  YOU DON’T FAKE IT TILL YOU MAKE IT.

Anything involving you being fake will turn people away from you.

 We’re all sick of safe and people that are not authentic .vulnerable is in fashion and his new black

LESSON NO 2  OF DARE TO LEAD: WE ARE ALL JUST “WINGING IT”

You think that a person who is the CEO is successful, but the truth is there just winging it.  They don't have all the answers.  The truth is none of us really know what we’re doing, we keep the L plates on for entire life. We’re always learning and no one has all the wisdom or knowledge that's available.  So instead of trying to be perfect learn to wing it like the people you looked up to as successful. 

LESSON NO 3 OF DARE TO LEAD:  YOU SHOULD VALUE TIME MORE THAN YOU DO.

 You procrastinate more than you realize you're not so smart, the phone is the new form of procrastination. You tell yourself that looking at your phone is work, but it's not .your phone wastes your time and you're fooling yourself if you think otherwise.  Time is what allows you to think and make smart decisions. Time is where dreams can be created and it's how you start a side hustle.  If you have a 9-to-5 time is also what you need to escape and start your own thing.  Stop wasting your time. 

LESSON NO 4:    SAY "NO" IS A DISCIPLINE YOU NEED.

 There's no point in having goals.  If you say yes to every Joe blow that comes your way, wanting your precious time for their own project.  Learn to say no only say yes if it feels good in the moment.  Otherwise, you'll end up with too many priorities and not enough time to work on your dream. “No” will give you space, “yes “will exhaust you.

 LESSON NO 5:    YOU REALLY SHOULDN'T HAVE “JUST ONE MORE”. 

The phrase just one more is the sign to stop .it's never just one more .stop lying to yourself and understand that giving in to the dictation hurt your success big time.  You don't need one more beer to numb your life.  You don't need one more episode that TV show to numb your life.  Enough is enough.  No more

LESSON NO 6:    YOU'RE NOT THAT MUCH OF A BIG DEAL.

 It's easy to believe your big deal, especially now with the power social media gives us all. The truth is you’re not a big deal, and neither my, well humankind of same. Turns out down on your ego will make you more sociable. People want to know someone interested in them and not just themselves. 

LESSON NO 7:    Finding your unique value is a moment of awakening

The day, you discover how you can bring value to the world is the day, everything changes.  Spend as much time as you can discover what your value proposition is. In simple terms how can you help us all that you know that we do not, what problem can you solve? 

LESSON NO 8:   HONESTY IS SUPER SEXY

Exaggeration has become the new line. Talking things up all the time is tiring when you stretch the truth or lie you'll get found out eventually.  So now you know there's no point.  Tell the truth because it's easy. You will never be lost for words, to tell the truth, through your experience.

Honesty leads to effective communication and that's we all suck at .problems stem from a lack of clarity and many of us make assumptions about stuff we have no clue about.

Make the decision to become sexy through honesty.

LESSON NO 9:    WE ALL HAVE OUR OWN PROBLEMS.

 That's why don't have time to be focused on yours .so, therefore, no one's thinking for more than a second about the fact he messed up.  Now you're free.  You can make mistakes and have the peace of mind and no one is going to remember what you did wrong. We are all toddlers at heart trying to explore the world and find what's true and what's not. Well trying to find the meaning of life, and that will come through taking huge risks with no understanding of what might occur. Next time you stuff that speech.  Remember, it's all gravy.

 LESSON NO 10:   YOUR IDEA OF SUCCESS CHANGES OVER TIME.

 When you're 18.  You'll think having a car success when you're 25 you think graduating University is a success.  When you finish University you think getting a corporate job is a success.  When you hit your 30s, you think owning a home and having a family is a success.  When you hit 50.  You'll think seeking your kids grow up defendants for they is success.  When you're 65, you'll think retirement is a success.  When you're 70 Plus, you'll think just being alive is a success.

 Your vision for success Changes based on your age.

 Learn what true success is at the youngest possible age and your life will get better .success is living your purpose.  Success is finding a way to give to others.  Success is finding and understanding, love. Success is being grateful instead of being pissed off.  Success is seeing the world for its infinite positivity. 

LESSON NO 11:    DOING WHAT YOU SAY YOU'RE GOING TO DO IS A SUPERPOWER

Ever been promised something and then not received it .the next time that same person promises something.  Do you believe them no you don't .doing what you say you're going to do is a superpower because no one does it .rather than overpromising set lower expectations?  Then when you deliver you'll find people are over the moon .when really they shouldn’t be tried it works. 

LESSON NO 12:    WE ALL HAVE TO BUILD SOMETHING

a life, a business, a family, a romantic relationship, a house if you're not building and you're not growing .things that don't grow dye like many of the people you meet who are alive but dead inside.

 LESSON NO 13:  YOU DON'T WORK AS HARD AS YOU THINK.

 Yes, that's another lie you tell yourself.  Most of us don't know what hard work is .we do one hour of emails and then take a break to watch TV series to reward ourselves.  Hard work is going 10 hours with nothing but a glass of water in front of you put the hours in then your hard work will translate into something special.

 LESSON NO 14:  YOU ALSO DON'T TAKE A BREAK AS OFTEN AS YOU SHOULD. 

It almost sounds like a contradiction, but it's not .working hard is important, but so is taking a break a few times a year.  If you don't recharge your mind through travel.  You become comfortable and bored.  This is the worst feeling in the universe

LESSON NO 15: QUITTING IS SOMETIMES NECESSARY AND REALLY HARD TO DO.

Do it regardless quit if you hated it. Quit if you had enough .stop talking and start doing.  You don't have to put up with anything.  If you don't want to .stop being so soft .quitting leads to opportunities. 

LESSON NO 16:    SUBTRACT RATHER THAN ADD

if you missed your goals, it's because you need to subtract more .focus comes from subtracting, not adding more things to that stupid to-do list that makes you feel like a failure.  Subtracting gives you time back in your day to reallocate towards the goals that you care about.  Less is more.

LESSON NO 17:    WHO AM I?

Asked this question to yourself a lot.  Self-reflection brings answers you've been seeking. These answers will stay down the right path and stop you from becoming incongruent. 

LESSON NO 18:    YOUR NEIGHBOR IS NOT THAT FLY. 

They look successful.  They tell you that they are successful.  They throw big parties with all their friends to appear successful.  Whether they truly are you probably never know.  That's a good outcome because you don't have time to think about your neighbor. You got your own party to prepare for called life. 

LESSON NO 19:   DON'T TELL US, SHOW US.

 Most people can talk to head off a chicken .stop telling and start showing through action action action action, more success comes from action. 

LESSON NO 20:   IT'S NOT WHO YOU ARE, IT'S WHO YOU BECOME. 

Don't worry about who you are right now.  Yes, there may be some cracks and that’s fine.  The truth is that who you are becoming is the most important way to step up to the next level of your life.  You've got to start somewhere.  So don't worry about where you are right now.  Trust yourself and the unlimited potential you have .time for action